Dear paul dont worry we all be up there soon with you. we all love paul and he will be truly missed

A calming soul in the turmoil of this crazy-mad family! I already miss the secret looks we'd give each other as 'outside' observers to the madness! (the madness he loved). Miss you Paul Sam xxx

POEM You Can Shed Tears That He is Gone You can shed tears that Paul is gone Or you can smile because he has lived. You can close your eyes and pray that he’ll come back Or you can open your eyes and see all that he’s left. Your heart can be empty because you can’t see him Or you can be full of the love you shared. You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday Or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday. You can remember him and only that he’s gone Or you can cherish his memory and let it live on. You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back Or you can do what he’d want: smile, open your eyes, love and go on.